The Myth of ‘Getting Over It’: Why Healing Isn’t Linear
“Just get over it already.” “That was so long ago—why are you still stuck on that?” Sound familiar?
Our culture loves the myth that healing should happen on a timeline, like checking off boxes on a to-do list. But here’s the truth: your healing journey looks more like a spiral than a straight line—and that’s exactly how it’s supposed to be.
In this post, I explore why the pressure to “move on” hits especially hard for marginalized communities, how your internal family system heals at its own pace, and why going “backward” in healing is actually a sign you’re ready to heal at a deeper level.
Your trauma didn’t happen to a timeline, and your healing doesn’t have to either. Every piece of your story—even the difficult ones—has a place in your beautiful mosaic.
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